And yes, important to remember the good if we can and pass that goodness on - as you did with your little grandson. Memories are a bit like paving stones for future generations, I think.
I loved the comment "This is one example of how writing is so beneficial for those of us trying to make sense of our past. It loosens the log jams in one’s memory so we can coherently put pieces of the puzzle together. It certainly has been true for me and thru the process, I've been able to find those remarkable memories.
So beautiful, Ms W. We lost a friend of the family today. Every time I do a jigsaw or play Scrabble I think of her - and in light of this post, I am going to make sure that I will still always do that. Thank you. 😘
I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Being remembered through the things we enjoyed doing and/or those we were devoted to is wonderful. Honoring someone's life happens every time we think of them whether it's over a Scrabble board, a favorite dish, or visiting a special place.
The quote. Excellent to live by. Certain moments and experiences are dedicated to those I've lost over the years.
Before I bite into a 6-layer fudge cake I send up a silent message, "Here's to you dad, I love you."
After I make a family summer dish of tuna, veggies, lightly covered with Mayo and served with corn on the cob and freshly sliced tomatoes I send up a silent "Thanks, this is for you mom," after I take the first bite.
After I finish a great detective novel I send up a silent thank you to both parents for teaching and instilling reading and writing in me.
I lost my best friend of 40 years a few years ago. When I visit places in Las Vegas and on the coast of the mid-California coast I dedicate a walk or a "stop and smell the roses moment" to her.
This was such a great read, excellent reminder, and the quote was perfect for this share. As always, thank you.
We get and give so much to each other without realizing it. Until it ends. But, we can keep it going every time we think of our loved one and the unique legacy they gave us.
What a poignant piece.
It's a kind of forgiveness toward him, isn't it?
And yes, important to remember the good if we can and pass that goodness on - as you did with your little grandson. Memories are a bit like paving stones for future generations, I think.
Thank you for your honesty.
I loved the comment "This is one example of how writing is so beneficial for those of us trying to make sense of our past. It loosens the log jams in one’s memory so we can coherently put pieces of the puzzle together. It certainly has been true for me and thru the process, I've been able to find those remarkable memories.
So beautiful, Ms W. We lost a friend of the family today. Every time I do a jigsaw or play Scrabble I think of her - and in light of this post, I am going to make sure that I will still always do that. Thank you. 😘
I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Being remembered through the things we enjoyed doing and/or those we were devoted to is wonderful. Honoring someone's life happens every time we think of them whether it's over a Scrabble board, a favorite dish, or visiting a special place.
The quote. Excellent to live by. Certain moments and experiences are dedicated to those I've lost over the years.
Before I bite into a 6-layer fudge cake I send up a silent message, "Here's to you dad, I love you."
After I make a family summer dish of tuna, veggies, lightly covered with Mayo and served with corn on the cob and freshly sliced tomatoes I send up a silent "Thanks, this is for you mom," after I take the first bite.
After I finish a great detective novel I send up a silent thank you to both parents for teaching and instilling reading and writing in me.
I lost my best friend of 40 years a few years ago. When I visit places in Las Vegas and on the coast of the mid-California coast I dedicate a walk or a "stop and smell the roses moment" to her.
This was such a great read, excellent reminder, and the quote was perfect for this share. As always, thank you.
We get and give so much to each other without realizing it. Until it ends. But, we can keep it going every time we think of our loved one and the unique legacy they gave us.
So true.