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prue batten's avatar

I was never a drinker until I began work. A social wine (one glass). After marriage, I always had a glass of wine with my husband and that was it. I was always aware of the loss of control of people who got drunk and I didn't want that.

My parents had a midday gin or rum and a night time gin or rum regularly until their deaths. But i don't recall them ever being drunk.

I stopped alcohol after a gallbladder operation and accompanying sepsis. When I tried to have a nightly wine, I promptly vomited - apparently it happens to some folk. It wasn't hard thereafter to completely forget about alcohol and I don't miss that nightly wine at all.

Chilled water with lemon and mint, is just as good and I've found amazing recipes for stunning non-alcoholic fruit punches.

My uncle by marriage was an alcoholic - a charming, loving and artistically gifted man when sober, but a pathetic human when on a bender. It was sad to see.

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Elaine R. Frieman's avatar

I’m glad your children bring you joy and comfort. 🫶🏻 And thank you for the informative post. I was a binge drinker in my uni years but I was never the type to drink at home or alone. I rarely drink now and even then generally when we go out for a meal and often not. I guess some people are more prone to drinking than others.

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